We live in an intergenerational household that includes a toddler. From the adults’ example, she learns what behaviors our family considers important, whether in showing love through hugs, respectful conversation, and kisses, or practical applications like using her words, saying “please” and “thank you,” or putting away her toys. She is developing into an independent, compassionate human being who fits into and adds to our family dynamic. Research shows that children do best when adults set limits and provide clear expectations of appropriate behavior. This not only keeps kids safe (“We hold hands when we cross the street”) but also teaches kids self-discipline. Similarly, God has given us a series of limits and appropriate behavior.

Today’s verse names Moses and Aaron as chosen by God “that they might keep [God’s] statutes and observe [God’s] laws.” In Deuteronomy 4:40, Moses tells his people, “Obediently live by [God’s] rules and commands which I’m giving you today so that you’ll live well and your children after you—oh, you’ll live a long time in the land that God, your God, is giving you” (the message). Jesus says that the greatest commandment is “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence.’ This is the most important, the first on any list. But there is a second to set alongside it: ‘Love others as well as you love yourself.’ These two commands are pegs; everything in God’s Law and the Prophets hangs from them” (Matt. 22:37-40, the message). Christians and faith communities throughout the centuries have followed the Great Commandment, the Ten Commandments, Jesus’ teachings, and other specific guiding principles. Saint Benedict of Nursia encouraged “keeping every rule for the love of Christ.” John Wesley offered these three rules: Do no harm, do good, stay in love with God. What are the rules and principles that guide your life?