Not being in control of events and not being able to predict the future, I have learned to live in trust, which offers the gift of waiting. While many consider not knowing a weakness, those who live in trust discover a richness in not knowing. Our not knowing can lead to an openness, a time of waiting to embrace what God holds in store for God’s beloved.
Abraham’s servant has been praying. He has opened his heart, and God has directed his steps. Now in Rebekah’s home, he rehearses his experience by the well. With God’s leading he has decided that Rebekah is the wife he has come seeking for Isaac. After engaging Rebekah, he bows his head in joyful thanksgiving and praise and worships the Lord. God has lis- tened and answered his plea. He has walked the road trusting, praying, and praising God.
Then in verse 49, he repeats words often spoken in trans- actions: “Now then, if you will deal loyally and truly with my master, tell me; and if not, tell me, so that I may turn either to the right hand or to the left.” The servant is left to wait for the reply. Will this relationship come to fruition?
We cannot escape waiting. Such is life. We are always wait- ing. What can we learn from this truth that all would prefer not to have to endure? On the one hand, it encourages us to pay attention. It reminds us that we need to “Be still, and know that I am God” (Ps. 46:10). In so doing, we learn to see through the eyes of discernment. Above all, waiting can teach us that God’s love will lead us. A mutual relationship with God will lead us to green pastures and wells of abundant grace that anoint us with God’s unending provision and love.